We are raising our daughter Catholic. She has been going with us to mass since she was born, short of a year or so where it was just so difficult to manage the “catholic calisthenics” with a 2 year old in your arms.
She went to Faith Formation (catechism) and had her first Communion and reconciliation. She will have her time for confirmation. This is a time where most of her friends are getting baptized. The Catholics believe in “one baptism for the forgiveness of sins.”
She is now a middle schooler entering the middle school program at the church designed called “the Edge”.
Her questions to me are when can she choose not to be a catholic. She thought that her Sunday school was so boring because of the fact that she went to a Christian school whose verses and stories were all a big repeat on Sunday. I told her until she knew enough to actually “teach” the class, she still had to go.
I want my daughter to have faith. Faith will get her through the times of trouble. Faith in a God who loves you and accepts you no matter what will get her through the times that she feels like she has no one on her side. Although she knows I will love her no matter what she does, I want something deeper for her.
We visit other churches around our area and listen to podcasts of other churches to snoop on the other churches that we may want to visit. We love the music and the messages.
I love speaking with the Deacons and Priests of the church as well. They say that the ritual of mass is supposed to be repetitious in order so you will have more prayer time to be closer to God. I had never thought that I would love the silent meditation time as much as I do.
It is amazing how 10 minutes of a Catholic priests sermon can feel like an hour and listening to other of the evangelistic ministers 35-50 minutes can breeze right by. I really don’t care if my daughter thinks the sermon is boring or not. She’ll have her time to choose where she wants to go but it is not right now.
I listened to Joyce Meyers stating how if “the devil is going to start a fight he is going to do it right before church.” I have found that to be quite true.
My daughter especially dislikes the shaking of the hands and stating “peace be with you” part of the mass. She would like to go to mass and sit as far away from everyone as possible so she doesn’t have to shake anyone’s hand or acknowledge that they are breathing.
I guess she didn’t get the part that if more than 2 people came together in the name of the lord that he will be present.
I want her to find her own path and find a group of people whom bring her joy in the storm of puberty. I want her to be loved and accepted for who she is. I want her to have a beautiful heart and spirit. I want her to be grateful for every second she walks on the earth. I don’t want her to feel like she has to please her friends in order to be accepted. She has the right to follow her own path.
I asked God for a baby girl one Easter day in the Catholic mass because I was ready for her. We had been trying for months. One day, she was there.
Structure and worship as a family is not always easy. It’s not easy for her being one of the few followers of the Catholic faith in her school.
I listened to one dying boy’s story and he speaks about fear in the face of death. He said he was not afraid. He saw himself as a part of God’s library. His parents checked him out and lived his life and when it was his time, he returned to God’s library. God owns us. We are lent out to love and return back to him.
I thought this was profound.